E-mail isn't an effective tool for me at the moment. Here at my day job I don't have a PC set up to check my 15 or so accounts (it took me several minutes to track down Lunar's message), and at home I'm using MSN9 dialup on my laptop, which for some reason won't play nice with XP's ICS, so my mail server is starving, too.
As far as things go, I and a lot of other professionals I know of tend to wear prejudices on our sleeves. Bias is very easy to see in that case. And usually it's well founded, one way or the other, despite differences of opinion (GaryH doesn't like ATI 'cause of driver issues. I like ATI 'cause its cards don't overheat or fail with astonishing regularity).
I guess I don't think about it often enough, but time is dead-on about the value of a pro's opinion.
WRT lens choice, given that I'd almost certainly work without a tripod most of the time (I don't want to carry one around, anyway), isn't Image Stabilization something of an imperative? I know photographers have gotten away without it for decades, but looking at comparison shots, it looked very worthwhile to me. I didn't see a whole lot of "affordable" IS lenses out there.
As far as playing with the stock at the local electronics megaplexes, man, I already did that. Unfortunately, both the local places (Best Buy and Circuit City) were out of stock on the DSLRs. As I said before, the Point and Shoot guys mostly weren't all that pleasing. Also, being left handed, the arrangement of every camera I've used is going to be a little awkward for me (my cross to bear).