Today I encountered an interesting situation which I'd like to share. I recall reading a discussion about this on SR a while back.
In any case, today a friend and I set out to go to a computer exposition in Boston. It was a decent show, but there wasn't anything I really wanted to buy. Most of the PC equipment was white-box or out of anti-static bag PC boards. They had a few monitors, most of which are refurb's and plenty of LED lit cases.
So I ended up spending a grand total of $1.05 on these 3M sticky hooks to wrap up some cables in the back of my desk. My friend also bought some of these for the same price.
We walked around for another 30 to 45 minutes until we decided to leave. On our way out there was a security guard who demanded to see a receipt. My friend was in front of me so they checked one of his receipts, but he couldn't find one of them for the 1-dollar wire clips we bought.
The security guard stated that we could not leave unless my friend had a receipt. So I became angry and I told the guy that he could not see my receipt and that he would have to take my word on what I bought. He proceeded to tell me no one can leave without having their receipt checked, so we argued that there is no visible sign stating a receipt is required to exit. I ask very firmly if he was accusing me of stealing, and he responded with, "no, I just can't see what is in your bag...why do you think I am here?
I should have responded that it was none of his damn business... what I buy doesn't concern him. However, that is hindsight. I continued to explain that if you need to check my bag, then you are accusing me of stealing.
So another security guard (these were not police officers) comes over and calls someone on the phone saying we wouldn't show receipts. This guy didn't give me any trouble, but he wasn't quite sure how to handle me along with the conflict I brought to them. So it turns out my friend found his receipt and the guy said he wouldn't let me leave...I turned to his right and walked right out the door. As I walked away I overheard the second security guard saying on the phone that I had walked out the door without having my receipt checked. After that, we got in my car and drove away...they never perused the situation.
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Now, what would the rest of you done in this situation? I had two paths to chose from when I got to the door.
A.) I show my receipt and we leave in peace
B.) I do not show my receipt and discover what the consequence is.
Now I feel some of you will say that this was way too simple of a situation to bother starting a fight. (Not a physical fight, I wouldn't have gone that far...unless I needed to defend myself) Out of curiousity, I wanted to see what would happen. I've never stolen anything in my life and I have no criminal record...I figured this would be the closet I'd come to a law breaking incident. (although I I don't think I was even close to breaking the law)
So, I chose the un-traveled road and I took the challenge to see what they would do. I felt I was in my right and that they were going to perform an illegal search. I also felt it was unlawful to detain me, as they are not the law. Had it been a police officer, I would have complied, but since it wasn't, I did not.
My initial plan, had they gone to the extreme would have been to threaten law suite. I would have made them call the police and I would have (if possible) pressed charges for detaining me and for accusing me of shoplifting.
In the end nothing came of this situation, which was probably good. I have a tendency to get a stubborn mindset on things like these. I may have been ridiculous, but when I stop and think about it...I've learned something today. I learned how to deal with an uncomfortable situation that I tend not to put myself in.
In any case, today a friend and I set out to go to a computer exposition in Boston. It was a decent show, but there wasn't anything I really wanted to buy. Most of the PC equipment was white-box or out of anti-static bag PC boards. They had a few monitors, most of which are refurb's and plenty of LED lit cases.
So I ended up spending a grand total of $1.05 on these 3M sticky hooks to wrap up some cables in the back of my desk. My friend also bought some of these for the same price.
We walked around for another 30 to 45 minutes until we decided to leave. On our way out there was a security guard who demanded to see a receipt. My friend was in front of me so they checked one of his receipts, but he couldn't find one of them for the 1-dollar wire clips we bought.
The security guard stated that we could not leave unless my friend had a receipt. So I became angry and I told the guy that he could not see my receipt and that he would have to take my word on what I bought. He proceeded to tell me no one can leave without having their receipt checked, so we argued that there is no visible sign stating a receipt is required to exit. I ask very firmly if he was accusing me of stealing, and he responded with, "no, I just can't see what is in your bag...why do you think I am here?
I should have responded that it was none of his damn business... what I buy doesn't concern him. However, that is hindsight. I continued to explain that if you need to check my bag, then you are accusing me of stealing.
So another security guard (these were not police officers) comes over and calls someone on the phone saying we wouldn't show receipts. This guy didn't give me any trouble, but he wasn't quite sure how to handle me along with the conflict I brought to them. So it turns out my friend found his receipt and the guy said he wouldn't let me leave...I turned to his right and walked right out the door. As I walked away I overheard the second security guard saying on the phone that I had walked out the door without having my receipt checked. After that, we got in my car and drove away...they never perused the situation.
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Now, what would the rest of you done in this situation? I had two paths to chose from when I got to the door.
A.) I show my receipt and we leave in peace
B.) I do not show my receipt and discover what the consequence is.
Now I feel some of you will say that this was way too simple of a situation to bother starting a fight. (Not a physical fight, I wouldn't have gone that far...unless I needed to defend myself) Out of curiousity, I wanted to see what would happen. I've never stolen anything in my life and I have no criminal record...I figured this would be the closet I'd come to a law breaking incident. (although I I don't think I was even close to breaking the law)
So, I chose the un-traveled road and I took the challenge to see what they would do. I felt I was in my right and that they were going to perform an illegal search. I also felt it was unlawful to detain me, as they are not the law. Had it been a police officer, I would have complied, but since it wasn't, I did not.
My initial plan, had they gone to the extreme would have been to threaten law suite. I would have made them call the police and I would have (if possible) pressed charges for detaining me and for accusing me of shoplifting.
In the end nothing came of this situation, which was probably good. I have a tendency to get a stubborn mindset on things like these. I may have been ridiculous, but when I stop and think about it...I've learned something today. I learned how to deal with an uncomfortable situation that I tend not to put myself in.